With Labor Day Weekend coming up, one of the most popular social events you’ll likely be invited to during your in the US is an American summer barbecue. It’s a great way to experience American culture, meet new people, and enjoy delicious food. Here’s a quick guide on what to expect at a US summer barbecue, so you can feel comfortable and have a great time during your BridgeUSA exchange journey!
The Atmosphere: Relaxed and Friendly
An American summer barbecue (or “BBQ”) are usually casual and laid-back. They often take place in backyards, parks, or by the beach. You might see people dressed in comfortable clothes like t-shirts, shorts, and sandals. The goal is to relax, enjoy good food, and have fun conversations. Don’t worry if you don’t know everyone—barbecues are also a great place to make new friends.
The Food: Grilled and Tasty
At a typical barbecue, you’ll find a variety of grilled foods. Hamburgers and hot dogs are common, but you might also see chicken, ribs, or even vegetables being grilled. There are usually side dishes like potato salad, coleslaw, and baked beans. Don’t forget about the condiments—ketchup, mustard, and BBQ sauce are often on the table. If you have dietary restrictions, it’s okay to ask your host about what’s available. Americans are usually happy to accommodate.
The Drinks: Something for Everyone
Barbecues often offer a range of drinks, including soda, lemonade, and iced tea. It’s common to see coolers filled with ice to keep drinks cold. If you’re unsure about what’s appropriate to drink, feel free to ask your host. Remember that in the US, it is illegal to drink alcohol if you are under 21 years old!
Activities: Fun and Games
Barbecues are not just about eating; there are usually activities to enjoy, too. You might see people playing games like frisbee, cornhole, or even volleyball. Some barbecues also have music playing, and people may start dancing or singing along. It’s a good opportunity to join in and experience American leisure activities.
Social Etiquette: Bring Something to Share
It’s customary to bring a small contribution to the barbecue. This could be a drink, a side dish, or even dessert. If you’re unsure what to bring, you can ask your host for suggestions. Even if you can’t bring something, a simple “thank you” goes a long way.
Attending an American barbecue is a fun and delicious way to experience American culture during your program. Don’t be afraid to try new foods, participate in activities, and meet new people. Remember, the most important thing is to relax and enjoy yourself. Welcome to the tradition of the American barbecue—you’re in for a treat!